Im going to fail in life?

Im 14 years old I suck in all the subjects in school, I get mainly C's and D's. Ive tried getting tutoring but im just not getting the hang of school my stepdad keeps telling me I was a mistake and that I shouldnt have been born and he constantly abuses me and I find myself depressed often im really afraid that im going to end up poor and a loser

Im going to fail in life?
If you want, I can help you with school. About your father... does he physical abuse you, as well? I'd advise you to find a way to get out of his care, if you can prove the abuse. You don't need to live like that. If you want somebody to talk to, feel free to contact me. I'd love to help.





Heath
Reply:Sounds like he is jealous of you because your mother loves you. Don't let him get you down. If he physically abuses you, tell your teacher or principal. Some people are better in subjects that are not taught in school at your age like plumbing, electrical, etc. They are better at doing things with their hands. Talk to your guidance counselor about this and she can get you some testing to see your aptitudes.
Reply:Not all people do good with tests and books. I got the same kind of grades as a kid as you do. I am whats called a "hands on" person. I need someone to physically show me how to do it. I also had trouble consentrating on the teachers. Try asking the teacher for more advise either during or after class. I am a home framer now because its "hands on" and it all made sence to me. There is a place for everyone in this world to work.I thought i would end up poor and a loser as well. But you are what you make yourself. And i made myself more than that. Now i own my own crew and tools. 2 trucks ect ect. You can be whatever you put your mind to. You just need to figure out where you want to be and what you want to do. :)
Reply:Oh my soul,





No wonder your grades aren't going anywhere - your step dad is giving you too much crap. Is there anyone you can talk to - mum, a family friend, another adult? - who will talk sense to your stepdad??





You know something? The BEST business people, enterpreneurs in life failed at school or dropped out. Seriously. Look at the biography of anyone famous who has a heart, and see their appalling background. Abject poverty, illiteracy - you name it.





And... there's plenty of people on here who believe in you, including me. You just haven't found a way to make school work for you, instead of the other way around.





In the eyes of the Creator - even if you don't believe in one - you are incredibly special. Unique, amazing. Funny. And caring. Just that to get to see that diamond you are, we gotta dig down under all that coal to get there (diamonds are compressed coal).





PS I got mainly Bs and Cs at school. Yet I'm a real bright spark. Go figure.
Reply:First of all, your stepdad is an asshole. Don't listen to him amd for Gods sake, don't listen to him say that you were a mistake. Whatever is making him say all of that, they are his issues not yours. He is the loser in this situation.





Secondly, just because you don't do well in school does NOT mean that you are a loser or that you will not do well in life. Keep trying, and maybe talk to a teacher that you like or trust about your schooling. They might be able to help you or give you some pointers.





Third, don't give up on yourself. You concentrate on things that you are good at and like to do. Try to enjoy life a little and don't let school get you down. Best of luck to you!
Reply:You're not going to fail life.


I'm sure it feels like it, but it's not going to happen.


Your grades are bad because your stepdad is abusing you and maybe because you're not good at academic learning.


Start by dealing with the problem with your stepdad. Either talk to a counsellor or go to him directly and tell him how you feel.


After that you will be more able to focus on your schoolwork and your grades will improve.


You can fix this and I wish you the best of luck. :)
Reply:dude pull yourself together and talk about this to your school counclers, principle or a friend or a teacher