Which one do you prefer to be a boyfriend? (Pls read my story...) A doctor or a lawyer?

I don't mean to ask this just to weigh them both. Honestly, both of them are nice people. The only thing that makes me feel awkward towards them is when they talk about their "profession". I always thank them for always looking for my welfare. The doctor guy always tells me to eat healthy foods (stuffs like that). And, the lawyer guy always talks logically (i mean, it's like everything has logical explanations). Sometimes, it left me a good laugh just talking to them. Haha! It's like I've got 2 instant life tutors! haha! But seriously, if you're in my shoes, who will it be? (i'm in dilemma, not because i can't choose, but because they're both nice and all-- practically almost perfect-- but when it comes to profession thing, i don't know.) They're really like 2 different people: The Doctor, can be very emotional, he cries if he's hurt (w/c for me nothing's wrong with it) while the lawyer, even if he's hurt, he wont let it show. He's always strong about his emotions.

Which one do you prefer to be a boyfriend? (Pls read my story...) A doctor or a lawyer?
I think you like the Cardiologist since you "describe" him more than the lawyer. He seems to be a very sensitive guy. I'm in the medical profession %26amp; pretty much know how some of the doctors are. Both professions have a very hectic schedule. My advice to you is, follow your heart %26amp; of course your instinct. Good luck!
Reply:Actually, I think it all depends on who you love more.





I have a doctor for a mother, and a lawyer for a father. The way you described your two boy friends, are kind of similar to them.





When I was in my growing up years, my mom was never there for the family. I grew up not knowing much of her, and kind of mad of her for prioritizing her patients over us. Whenever I woke up, either she was still sleeping or had left for work already, and when I go to bed, she's always not yet home. She only had time for us when she got really sick because of the stress her profession caused her.





My dad on the other hand, was a strict disciplinarian, and I never enjoyed his company until I was 8 or 9. I've never seen him cry too, but when he got mad, he got REALLY mad, and sometimes, I dislike him for not being honest about his feelings. I also don't like it when he believes that he's always right, and won't give up when he is corrected.





I think someone with a softer heart (even though he has less time) is better than someone with a stone-cold heart. You said it yourself that the lawyer guy was much more of a brother to you. Both can give you a better future, but the lawyer has better logical and futuristic views.





Which do you prefer though? Someone who understands you, or someone who will do the thinking for you?





I'm not trying to be offensive here, but my dad's fellow lawyers said this themselves: "Doctors work for others; Lawyers work for themselves."
Reply:i'm a lawyer myself so I would of course chose my compañero but my suggestion is that you follow your heart... the important thing is find someone that you are compatible with and not by their profession
Reply:I'd say the doctor. Why? He'll live longer than the lawyer. Because when the commies finally takeover the country, it's the lawyers who'll be first to get shot, the doctors will be spared. But if you ask me, I'll choose neither, go date an accountant instead : P





Just kidding, but really, if you need to ask people on the forum to help you decide who to go out with, then I'd say something's really wrong here. Can't you decide for yourself? Besides, don't you have friends and family who know you better to help you decide instead of asking total strangers online for advice?
Reply:that was too hard huh. i go for the doctor.
Reply:i am just concerned about the thing you said about the lawyer, saying that he's like a brother you never had... maybe it's the answer to your dilemma... maybe that's just it he's a brother you never had...
Reply:Prefer just a cleaner or dish washing people. :D
Reply:Its a hard decision, but I'd say go with the lawyer.
Reply:this story is too good to be true


peace!
Reply:You seemed to be confused if you'd rely on their profession, personality and character. How about doing some research on the background of the family? I tell you it'll give you more information about him. The kind of family mirrors the way a person was brought up. Are his parents separated? Among his siblings, how many were separated or divorce? Are they a closed knit family? Good luck.
Reply:Forget about that doctor and attorney and choose any of the Yappers. You already asked that questions twice. Get over it.
Reply:Tell your suitors to have two proffesions each. A Doctor/Lawyer and Lawyer / Doctor whoever finished the second degree will win your heart. Now your dilemma of which profession your boyfriend must have will be solved.





I just can't understand that you have to base your selection for a boyfriend on a man's profession. I feel that there's something is'nt right with your post.
Reply:you're right. you're all young. wait for an engineer to come. then you can choose from the three. hahaha. just joking! i'd pick the doctor. lawyers are damn good liars.
Reply:Go with the one you have the most in common with. Do you like backpacking? Are the lawyer's mood swings something to be concerned about. Men get worse after marriage, not better. The little quirks you like now, will probably irritate you later. Will the doctor put you and the children first or his profession? Does he cry too much? That could get old, too. It's good he encourages you to eat healthy, but is this going to turn into a control issue? If little alarms are going off, then listen to them. They are there for a reason. Maybe you have to let both go, maybe not.
Reply:Choose one you think will make you happiest the most.! - very simple right?
Reply:go for the one who's a total opposite of yourself.
Reply:ey...you know i won't pick one for you because if i will do that then i'm gonna based it on what or who i want...rather i would say to you to follow your heart! try to see if you can feel the spark when you are with either one of them...try to imagine yourself living w/ that person...and dwell on this thought, don't be with the person you can live with instead be with the person you cannot live without...☺
Reply:Same story, same choice. I'd still go for the lawyer. Same reason too.





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Reply:Tough Decision huh???


If I was in your shoes, I would be confused too because It would be nice to have someone with both personalities......


But if there can only be one, it would probably the lawyer, because I just love people challenging me......(being an adventurous person around me).......