How do i get over rejection-she realized that i liked her and told me that i wouldn't get a girl liker her.

i asked my friends and this yahoo ans for advice which was -"there's this girl i liked, what should i do about it?" Many told me to drop hints/ask her out. I did, and i feel like a pansy because my heart is broken. I am now creepy in her book. She (white girl, 20-years) is smart, witty, good looking and intelligent, sweet.i knew i was sorta out of league.She didn't flat out reject me b/c she's too nice. I only found out from overhearing her friends talking that that she realized that one of her asian guy friends liked her. to add, they said "he was a loser"-that would be me. The girl told her friends that she couldn't find herself to date skinny, glass-wearing, nerdy guys. btw, I workout constantly-i don't think i'll be getting muscles soon; i wear glasses only because contacts irritate my eyes. i should move on, but its hard when there are no girls who would consider me dating material. (i'm a nice guy, who mentors troubled kids, volunteers, tutors;i'm not that ugly).

How do i get over rejection-she realized that i liked her and told me that i wouldn't get a girl liker her.
Big deal dude., Everyone gets rejected. You know what you do? You hit your diet, and workout like a madman. Then you get a girl who is better than her.





But it is not complete until you make sure she knows it. Throw it in her face. Then she will be jealous for you.
Reply:Yeah that's the way to go throw it in her face. Who care if she knows that you have a new girl or not. You're wasting your time if you throw it in her face. She obviously doesn't care enough to want to be with you. Just have fun with the new girl. Report It

Reply:Seriously dude if your trying to change just for her then thats crap because she should like you for who you are. Second her loss move on and try other girls.
Reply:Oh, I'm sorry that she didn't respond to you but don't let that get you down!! There is always someone for everyone. Getting rejected is all part of the "dating scene." It's perfectly normal for you to be rejected now and then but don't let the rejection stop you from asking girls out! One is bound to say yes!! Good luck.
Reply:The game of telephone is so over rated. When others play messenger for you, in formation tends to get messed up. I would confront her your self. Tell her exactly what you said on here: "She (is smart, witty, good looking and intelligent, sweet.)" Act like a friend. like you just want to hang out. Be your self. But if you never confront her and go though friends, you'll never know what she really thinks. Guys hang out with girls all the time these days as friends. If you start as friends, who knows what can happen.
Reply:To get over rejection you find someone new and find someone who you know likes you back
Reply:It's not about how you look, it's about your attitude. If you show confidence, you'll be a lot more attractive to women. If you go in with the attitude that "she's too good for you," then you will always come out a loser. If you act like she'd be lucky to be seen around you, then you'll get a lot more positive responses.
Reply:I was once the wrong breed due to my parents being poor.....Guess what I was the right breed Twice to very good looking men.......first husband passed away.





You will be the right one for the right one Wait for her.....she may come back begging but it will be too late for her.....





You don't date someone because your friends think they are cute.....you date them because you think that they are cute.....who cares what your friends think.....be yourself. Like who you want to.


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My son has contacts and so do I yes they irritate your eyes at first but you will get used to them......and in the end you will kick yourself in the butt for waiting so long.....
Reply:there is nothing wrong with you at all. She sounds the one who needs to grow up and you gave her to much credit....she not nice shes two faced and doesnt care. Your better than this and keep up what your doing, its her loss not yours. You sound you have a huge heart and you'll find your girl before long! Besides you dont want to shallow people there the loosers!