Monday, May 24, 2010

How can i be abetter daughter....? help is needed. =)?

Well I'm a teen.


lately i've been making


well alot of stupid %26amp; immature


mistakes like


-lying to my parents about tutoring to be with my boyfriend.


-cheating %26amp;%26amp; getting caught on homework


-lying to my coach so i could sit out with my friends


- All my grades have been slipping from A's-B's to C's %26amp;%26amp; D's


-Etc.etc.


Well because of those reasons listed i will be transferring schools so my mom can "keep a better eye on me" [[she is a teacher at an elementary school near my soon to be school]]


I have LOST their trust and i would like to know how i can gain their trust back and be a better daughter. Any suggestions will do! Thank Y'all for your time%26amp;%26amp; help!!


Sarahh


=)

How can i be abetter daughter....? help is needed. =)?
Okay, I know it's way harder to transform words into action, so I'll try to give you some more reasonable suggestions...





At least you're not having sex with your boyfriend! That is one pointer that your parents will understand and respect and you already have the advantage of your parents liking your boyfriend. I know it's not as easy at it seems, but try to convince your parents to let you hang out with your boyfriend. Promise that you'll get a REAL tutor to try to bring your grades back up.





Since you had A's and B's before, I'm sure you can get them again with some hard work and remembering to do your homework. :) Then, you won't have to cheat anymore.





If you don't want to do sports, then you shouldn't have to. Tell your parents that you want to do something that you love. That should cut the lying all together.
Reply:youre friends will wait. if they are true friends so be responsible and dont lie to your coach. do your OWN homework and classwork.


if she doesnt like youre boyfriend there is probably a reason and you should stop lying to be with him. unless she just doesnt like him because she thinks youre too young. but if its because hes a bad influence he probably is.


so pretty much, stop lying and do what you know you should do.
Reply:Well quit doing the bad things your doing [you obviously know what they are] and just start getting your grades up and show your parents you can be responsible. Maybe even help out around the house and just show them you are at least making an effort to be good again.
Reply:It's simple.





Don't lie to your parents about tutoring to be with your boyfriend.


Don't cheat and get caught.


Don't lie to your coach.


And don't let your grades slip.





Basically do the opposite of what you were doing.


A three year old could figure thaaat out.
Reply:ew... sorry just to the nvm..





lol..anyway. simple. Don't do those things anymore. Be nice and kind and loving and truthful.





And if you're going to an elementary school..aren't you too young for a boyfriend.





Well yours might be one that's from k-8 or somethin...I don't know..
Reply:Communication is the key.


Talk to your Mum and Dad tell them what our feeling when you wan to do these things. Remember that trust is a two way street.
Reply:Ask to do chores around the house. ASK, don't wait for her too. If she asks do it with no problem. You need to show them your responsible %26amp; trustworthy.
Reply:Just Dont Lie anymore.


Act mature and do the opposite of what you are doing now.
Reply:First off it will take some time for them to trust you after the lying...third..get all your grades up...and don't sit out...it will take them time to trust you again but that all will help..
Reply:dont do all those things you mentioned


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