PLEASE READ.....desperate.....?

This girl from about an hour away was supposed to meet me tonight where I live as we have gotten closer over the past few weeks sometimes spending 3 hours or so over the phone.





She seemed REALLY into me, calling me 4 times last night before I called her back at 11:15, she was asleep but called me back at 4 AM where we talked for 30 min and again at 7AM but I was asleep. She said that she would call me after her tutoring was done at 5:30 to let me know what the deal was.





She didnt call so at 6:30 I decided to call, she answered and it seemed like there was some comotion in the background, we said hey and she asked if she could call me back.





I waited till 7 and called her again. Her phone rang twice then went to her voicemail which makes me think she ignored my call. I then called back at 805 leaving her a message just asking her what the deal is and that im not mad I just want to know whats up.





Im more confused than anything b/c me and this girl really have hit it off. HELP!

PLEASE READ.....desperate.....?
Don't worry about it...but as a safety precaution, drive over there. Suprise her with some flowers. Give her chocolate. It may be some family troubles, so don't worry. But if you are really that worried, (and it sounds like you are spazzing out) hire a P.I. its probably nothing. Its alright, she called you 4 times in one night. You've got it made. DO NOT WORRY!
Reply:she may be having regrets
Reply:stop calling her because it's making you look desperate
Reply:Wait till she calls you if a guy did that to me the first time it would be sweet but all the time is just annyoing. Give her a breack.
Reply:she could have a boyfriend.





that or she is just over a friends house for a sleepover or something. you know how us girls get at sleepovers.





dont worry about it though.





dont call her anymore cause you dont wanna seem desperate. its cute when i guy calls first but its annoying and freakey when he calls all of the timee.





good luck hun!
Reply:When she didn't call by 6:30 you should have gotten the message that she was not coming and made other plans. After all you have been only communicating by phone. If you really wanted to see her It would have been more appropriate for you to go the hour to see her. Give her a chance, I'm sure if she wants to continue to communicate she will call you.
Reply:I think maybe she had a 2nd thought...... maybe she doesn't want to meet after all. or somethimg was going on in her life and she can't get away now.. if she wants to continue this relationship BACK OFF... give her hsome space.. dont call her every 2 hours... give her some time and space to wokr out whatever is going on with her she isnt' telling you...
Reply:It could be anything from cheating (not likely) to one of her good friends coming to visit her. Just keep trying, if she seemed nice, I wouldn't worry.

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