I think I ruined my high school career. A 3.17 on the first semester of freshmen year. Usually, i'm a straight a student, but I started slipping alot this year. My first C ever on a report card. In order to get a good enough gpa would i have to take 4+ AP classes if i'm aiming for stanford?
(Future Years)
Freshmen
-not allowed to take APs
my final GPA for both semesters would be a 3.58
Sophomore
-AP Biology
-AP Computer Science
Junior
-AP U.S. History
-AP Literature
-AP Physics
-AP Calculus
Senior
-i've heard they don't even look at senior year
-AP Statistics
-AP Government/Economics
-AP Chemistry
-AP Literature
-AP Spanish
I'm in Track and Cross Country. My clubs are FBLA, leo, and key club.
I also volunteer at the library, hospital, %26amp; community center. I'm planning on getting a tutoring job too.
Do I have any chance of getting into stanford?
Talk to any stanford rep and they will tell you that the number one thing they look for on an application is passion. You don't need to join 4 million clubs, do what you love and do it well.
Also your going to need a solid schedule (which you plan on taking)...a higher GPA (3.8 at the minimum), a high SAT/ACT score.
Keep up whatever your doing. I would suggest starting a tutoring club that tutors in subjects that you enjoy.
Best of luck!
Reply:Thirty years ago a few of my high school friends went to Stanford. Others went to other private schools, most went to state universities and colleges. I can't see any evidence that going to Stanford was in any way better for those who did that. Instead, I think the people who had the best college experience were those who went to smaller colleges. They learned more, had a more personal relationship with their professors, and had more close friends. So think about finding a small college, public or private, that seems the closest fit with your personality type. You have a zero percent chance of getting into Stanford and it is just not worth spending even one second worrying about it.
Monday, May 24, 2010
**HELP**What happens if I withdraw a class after being accepted as a transfer student at a 4 year university?
I attend a community college and I'm taking 5 classes right now. I was accepted in a 4 years university for Fall.... they said in the admission letter that I need to pass all my classes with a "satisfactory grade" which I assume is like a C???? well, anyways... I am passing all my classes and getting As in all of them EXCEPT chemistry which sucks... the teacher is a **beep** and I don't want to mess up my GPA, I've never dropped off a class before and I always hated that dropping off thing until now. What should I do? what if then I don't pass chem. and the university denies me admission even tho' I passed all my other classes with As?
Would a withdraw mess up things? what if I change it to an audit?
This is a very small college and they don't even have chemistry tutoring here =(
**HELP**What happens if I withdraw a class after being accepted as a transfer student at a 4 year university?
I would definitely go to a school counselor.
He/she can tell you exactly what will happen
if you withdraw from that class. You should
definitely look into whether that Chemistry
class is necessary for your transfer to the
university.
Reply:I think the best advice I can give you is to contact the admission department at the university. Just ask what will happen if a class is dropped. Don't give them extra information unless they ask for it. They should give an answer and info on what you should do.
Reply:If chemistry is not part of your major, maybe you can take the class pass/fail. I believe a pass is still considered a satisfactory grade. You should talk to an advisor at both colleges and see what they can do to help you.
Reply:Speak to an Academic Advisor at your college! Advisors are there to answer those questions. All colleges have an Academic Advisor. You can also ask the register office.
Reply:If you are attending a community college and drop it, most likely it won't affect any letter grade. In Texas, when transferring from a CC to a university, the only grades and classes that transfer over are the ones that are completed. Dropping a class will give you a W(withdrawal) status in most situations. If I remember correctly, the university will get your transcript and they will mark that the classes you have taken and completed only and completely disregard withdrawals. The great thing about CC's are the fact that you can drop the class extremely late in the semester and not have it affect your overall GPA. If you do fail a class though, then the F will pass through and the university will not consider that class as passed. If you need more information, you should speak with the counselors from the school you are transferring to in order to get the correct information. The counselors at your CC may have a good idea, but it's not completely valid since it's the university's decisions that matter.
Reply:C is a border failing grade my dear.. You should aim for A's and B's.
{{{Princess}}}
Reply:You need to ask the college you're transferring to.
Or fix your internet so I can tutor you. :P
EDIT:
Okay, You're right, a C is a satisfactory grade. But if it's still early enough in the semester, you can drop with a W. (That is NOT a failing grade) If it's too late for a W, ask your teacher if you can get a WP(which is a withdrawal passing) if ya'll don't do that, then stay and tough it out for a C. IT won't hurt your GPA much.
Also, ask your college now about their policiews of D's transferring. if they are like my school, they give you the option not to transfer the credits in order to drop the grade from your GPA all together.So that could be an option. Just ask your school. (Is it U of U?) Good luck!
Would a withdraw mess up things? what if I change it to an audit?
This is a very small college and they don't even have chemistry tutoring here =(
**HELP**What happens if I withdraw a class after being accepted as a transfer student at a 4 year university?
I would definitely go to a school counselor.
He/she can tell you exactly what will happen
if you withdraw from that class. You should
definitely look into whether that Chemistry
class is necessary for your transfer to the
university.
Reply:I think the best advice I can give you is to contact the admission department at the university. Just ask what will happen if a class is dropped. Don't give them extra information unless they ask for it. They should give an answer and info on what you should do.
Reply:If chemistry is not part of your major, maybe you can take the class pass/fail. I believe a pass is still considered a satisfactory grade. You should talk to an advisor at both colleges and see what they can do to help you.
Reply:Speak to an Academic Advisor at your college! Advisors are there to answer those questions. All colleges have an Academic Advisor. You can also ask the register office.
Reply:If you are attending a community college and drop it, most likely it won't affect any letter grade. In Texas, when transferring from a CC to a university, the only grades and classes that transfer over are the ones that are completed. Dropping a class will give you a W(withdrawal) status in most situations. If I remember correctly, the university will get your transcript and they will mark that the classes you have taken and completed only and completely disregard withdrawals. The great thing about CC's are the fact that you can drop the class extremely late in the semester and not have it affect your overall GPA. If you do fail a class though, then the F will pass through and the university will not consider that class as passed. If you need more information, you should speak with the counselors from the school you are transferring to in order to get the correct information. The counselors at your CC may have a good idea, but it's not completely valid since it's the university's decisions that matter.
Reply:C is a border failing grade my dear.. You should aim for A's and B's.
{{{Princess}}}
Reply:You need to ask the college you're transferring to.
Or fix your internet so I can tutor you. :P
EDIT:
Okay, You're right, a C is a satisfactory grade. But if it's still early enough in the semester, you can drop with a W. (That is NOT a failing grade) If it's too late for a W, ask your teacher if you can get a WP(which is a withdrawal passing) if ya'll don't do that, then stay and tough it out for a C. IT won't hurt your GPA much.
Also, ask your college now about their policiews of D's transferring. if they are like my school, they give you the option not to transfer the credits in order to drop the grade from your GPA all together.So that could be an option. Just ask your school. (Is it U of U?) Good luck!
What to do about calc 1 class?
im a sophmore and in majoring in civil engineering. i am just now in calc 1 and failing. we, im not the only one, everyone else in the class is. the teacher does an example on the board, and none of us can understand a word he says. then because we dont know enough about the problem to ask questions, he assumes he can give harder ones on the test. we take our tests to the tutors and they dont knwo how to do it.
i am attempting to do the HW for fridays test but i understand it even less the usual. i am not used to not being able to understand math. i was a natural at it. now i try at a problem for over an hour and still dont get it. i know not to try others b/c they get harder.
now i think of myself as a failure and a quitter because i stopped trying to get the problem. ive twisted myself up inside so all i feel is shame for myself. i have to pass this class. plz dont say switch majors. im mostly venting but ay replies would be welcome.
What to do about calc 1 class?
you really should go talk to this professor
i suggest going with a small group of people in the class who are having the same problem as you, and explaining to him that you guys really dont understand the material and that he should explain why stuff works in more depth
he might seem distant or unapproachable but im sure that he will listen and try to improve his class based on your suggestions because thats why he is a teacher (hes there to teach not to fail you)
DONT switch your major!
if youve found something you like you should pursue it no matter how many obstacles are thrown in your way
good luck!
p.s. also if theres a specific problem that you cant work out, i could try to help...although im not making any promises
Reply:Is it too late to drop? I would drop it this semester and take it during a summer session either with your school or with a community college or somewhere else that your college will allow you to transfer the credit in with.
It sounds like a big part of the problem is the professor, so hopefully a new teacher will help.
Also, I was a great math student myself and loved math up until Calculus. I did great in PreCalculus and for the life of me couldn't get better than a C in Calculus. So maybe it's just something about the topic itself that gives some of us who have naturally done well in math a bit of difficulty in this particular area.
Reply:Don't quit. I have a foreign teacher with a horribly hard to understand accent. I get a seriously bad headache everyday in that class. The class is seriously averaging around 50% on tests. I'm passing, barely. Fortunately this won't transfer on my transcripts when I transfer to my target 4 year college. I have a 4.0 outside this one class with this terrible teacher. I need to take Calc I next semester which is the math that will transfer. Keep on going. Seriously, don't quit because it kind of makes me want to quit, and I need this!!!
Reply:I know what you mean being that I am in the exact situation. (Calc 3 though) I've never been great at math but i use to do MUCH better back in the days now I read and the more I do the less I understand. I usually go to other calculus teachers and beg them to help me solve and understand a problem.
If your teacher is the problem then I would just gather will all your classmates and demand him to teach better, otherwise, it would be impossible to pass. You can also try to switch to another calculus class w/ another professor. But DO NOT change your major.
i am attempting to do the HW for fridays test but i understand it even less the usual. i am not used to not being able to understand math. i was a natural at it. now i try at a problem for over an hour and still dont get it. i know not to try others b/c they get harder.
now i think of myself as a failure and a quitter because i stopped trying to get the problem. ive twisted myself up inside so all i feel is shame for myself. i have to pass this class. plz dont say switch majors. im mostly venting but ay replies would be welcome.
What to do about calc 1 class?
you really should go talk to this professor
i suggest going with a small group of people in the class who are having the same problem as you, and explaining to him that you guys really dont understand the material and that he should explain why stuff works in more depth
he might seem distant or unapproachable but im sure that he will listen and try to improve his class based on your suggestions because thats why he is a teacher (hes there to teach not to fail you)
DONT switch your major!
if youve found something you like you should pursue it no matter how many obstacles are thrown in your way
good luck!
p.s. also if theres a specific problem that you cant work out, i could try to help...although im not making any promises
Reply:Is it too late to drop? I would drop it this semester and take it during a summer session either with your school or with a community college or somewhere else that your college will allow you to transfer the credit in with.
It sounds like a big part of the problem is the professor, so hopefully a new teacher will help.
Also, I was a great math student myself and loved math up until Calculus. I did great in PreCalculus and for the life of me couldn't get better than a C in Calculus. So maybe it's just something about the topic itself that gives some of us who have naturally done well in math a bit of difficulty in this particular area.
Reply:Don't quit. I have a foreign teacher with a horribly hard to understand accent. I get a seriously bad headache everyday in that class. The class is seriously averaging around 50% on tests. I'm passing, barely. Fortunately this won't transfer on my transcripts when I transfer to my target 4 year college. I have a 4.0 outside this one class with this terrible teacher. I need to take Calc I next semester which is the math that will transfer. Keep on going. Seriously, don't quit because it kind of makes me want to quit, and I need this!!!
Reply:I know what you mean being that I am in the exact situation. (Calc 3 though) I've never been great at math but i use to do MUCH better back in the days now I read and the more I do the less I understand. I usually go to other calculus teachers and beg them to help me solve and understand a problem.
If your teacher is the problem then I would just gather will all your classmates and demand him to teach better, otherwise, it would be impossible to pass. You can also try to switch to another calculus class w/ another professor. But DO NOT change your major.
Anyone doing the City & Guilds e-Quals course? I think it is a poorly thought out course?
Speaking to the tutors at my local college I get the impression that they too are not entirely happy with this course. C%26amp;G refuse to tell them what is in the assesments and yet expect the college to provide the correct study guides. I took my ITP assesement and found some questions had not been covered in the course work.
I am now attempting to do Level 3 Word but the Microsoft study guide is painfully lacking any kind of guidence and I have reached the point where I think I may as well jack it in and do a payed course. I guess its true what people say, you get what you pay for.
Anyone doing the City %26amp; Guilds e-Quals course? I think it is a poorly thought out course?
I sincerely hope that you fill in the feedback forms.
The only way that colleges and universities can give their students good service is by students being honest about the feedback about how the course did or did not meet their requirements.
Feedback can be given anonymously and students should not feel embarrassed about being truthful.
The Ofsted send inspectors to all colleges, universities and schools to make sure they are giving students the service they are paying for. If you prefer address your concerns to them directly.
Reply:I'm sorry to hear you haven't found your course preparing you for a City %26amp; Guilds IT qualification useful. We base the qualification on the skills and knowledge that employers tell us is most important to them. Because the assessment is hands-on practical assignments, employers know that people with a City %26amp; Guilds certificate can actually do the things that are important, not just answer questions about them.
We are very open about what the syllabus is and what you will be assessed on - go to www.cityandguilds.com/itquals to get all the info you need. If you feel your college has not prepared you properly for the assessment, you should first follow their complaints procedure - let them know you're not happy. If you have done that, and not had a satisfactory response, contact City %26amp; Guilds about it. If there are any aspects of the syllabus or the assessments that you felt were not good, please let us know so that we can work on improving them. City %26amp; Guilds doesn't get funding from the government, but your college may have got a government subsidy to run the course.
Reply:I did a city and guilds course a few years back and it was a total waste of time. I later did an Access course which got me a place at university, where i am now.
I am not sure what you want to do but it's a path worth looking into.
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I am now attempting to do Level 3 Word but the Microsoft study guide is painfully lacking any kind of guidence and I have reached the point where I think I may as well jack it in and do a payed course. I guess its true what people say, you get what you pay for.
Anyone doing the City %26amp; Guilds e-Quals course? I think it is a poorly thought out course?
I sincerely hope that you fill in the feedback forms.
The only way that colleges and universities can give their students good service is by students being honest about the feedback about how the course did or did not meet their requirements.
Feedback can be given anonymously and students should not feel embarrassed about being truthful.
The Ofsted send inspectors to all colleges, universities and schools to make sure they are giving students the service they are paying for. If you prefer address your concerns to them directly.
Reply:I'm sorry to hear you haven't found your course preparing you for a City %26amp; Guilds IT qualification useful. We base the qualification on the skills and knowledge that employers tell us is most important to them. Because the assessment is hands-on practical assignments, employers know that people with a City %26amp; Guilds certificate can actually do the things that are important, not just answer questions about them.
We are very open about what the syllabus is and what you will be assessed on - go to www.cityandguilds.com/itquals to get all the info you need. If you feel your college has not prepared you properly for the assessment, you should first follow their complaints procedure - let them know you're not happy. If you have done that, and not had a satisfactory response, contact City %26amp; Guilds about it. If there are any aspects of the syllabus or the assessments that you felt were not good, please let us know so that we can work on improving them. City %26amp; Guilds doesn't get funding from the government, but your college may have got a government subsidy to run the course.
Reply:I did a city and guilds course a few years back and it was a total waste of time. I later did an Access course which got me a place at university, where i am now.
I am not sure what you want to do but it's a path worth looking into.
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Which one do you prefer to be a boyfriend? (Pls read my story...) A doctor or a lawyer?
I don't mean to ask this just to weigh them both. Honestly, both of them are nice people. The only thing that makes me feel awkward towards them is when they talk about their "profession". I always thank them for always looking for my welfare. The doctor guy always tells me to eat healthy foods (stuffs like that). And, the lawyer guy always talks logically (i mean, it's like everything has logical explanations). Sometimes, it left me a good laugh just talking to them. Haha! It's like I've got 2 instant life tutors! haha! But seriously, if you're in my shoes, who will it be? (i'm in dilemma, not because i can't choose, but because they're both nice and all-- practically almost perfect-- but when it comes to profession thing, i don't know.) They're really like 2 different people: The Doctor, can be very emotional, he cries if he's hurt (w/c for me nothing's wrong with it) while the lawyer, even if he's hurt, he wont let it show. He's always strong about his emotions.
Which one do you prefer to be a boyfriend? (Pls read my story...) A doctor or a lawyer?
I'd go for the doctor. If we are to live here in the States, I certainly don't want to be married to a lawyer. They sure have a less than sterling reputation here.
Reply:I recommend neither for you because you don't love either them. If you did love one, then you wouldn't be asking this question. You don't love both because a Filipina's heart is only for one at a time. Wait to you meet someone that makes your heart sing. You'll be doing the doctor and lawyer a favor anyways if you don't love them.
Reply:go for the doctor. if you choose the lawyer, i am pretty certain you will fight for the speakership of the house once you are a couple.
Reply:WOW, you must be sumkinda girl having two great guys swoon after you...hehehe... upon reading your story, i guess i'd choose the lawyer. as women we need someone who is strong and can stand for us or your family in the future. regarding his attitude about keeping it to himself even if he's hurt, you can still change that, be honest with him and tell him that you'd rather have him tell you what he wants and he doesn't want in a relationship and you also do the same- this worked for me ang my husband we've been together for 10 years now.I find the doctor's personality a bit boring.. although he has some good sides as well. The lawyer guy seems exciting. you know us girls, we are always after surprises a little naughtiness will spice up the relationship. But try to envision yourself married to each of them, who do you think would be a perfect partner for yourself. Goodluck! Haba ng hair mo gurl!
Reply:none of them. try to make friends any others, then see what happen. compared thing sometimes give worst answer.
Reply:both are of noble profession, but one or both could have only shown their best foot forward. Have you tried checking it out with compatibility thru astrological signs. The wealthy chinese always use this. Knowing this art and science could even surprise you bc you may discover traits you yourself don't know about yourself.
Reply:if i were you, i'd choose a lawyer...
lawyers are good conversationalists, sentimental and very loving. They are also thoughtful but they tend to be very jealous at times. they are also possessive but whatever, lawyers are good... they won't leave you...
doctors tend to prioritize work first than you while with a lawyer, you always comes first.
whatever i say, just follow your heart...
God bless!
Reply:doctor!
Reply:have you ever win an argument with a lawyer? you would want someone who's sensitive to your feelings and other people's feelings. hmmmpp. lawyers can be wrapped up with their own world that they're always right. hmmmpp. haven't you felt like your dumb sitting and talking to a lawyer while he corrects whatever you say? hmmmpp. they're self righteous. doctors sees beyond and feel what other people can't. hmmmppp. now, you pick. hhmmmppp.
Reply:i would say the doctor...
though they're both useful in different ways, i like the doctor since he's conscious about the health %26amp; lawyers are more on the devil's advocate...they know how to lie...my father is lawyer %26amp; im not saying that he's a liar but he's good at it (the reasoning out), but he's too serious...
Reply:lawyers make the philippines sick
illness doctors can never heal.....
Reply:The doctor, lawyers talk too much.
Reply:Go for a doctor, if you feel him, as he can give life to you... while a lawyer can take your breath from you. Hahaha!
Reply:a doctor..
Reply:well if i was a girl , I'd go for the more good looking one and thats more richer
Reply:lawyer=he can give whatever reason just to make sure that u trust him... sometimes, not that honest..
doctor=very honest man but too busy.
so, its up to you to choose...
Reply:Asked the lawyer about the logical explanation of 2-(-2)=4,
(-2)-2=-4. If he cannot explains it then his full of shi*t and choose the doctor. A doctor saves lives and a lawyer hang people upside down and drained them until they die.
Reply:the doctor is best for you...
Reply:lawyers are pimps... go for the doctor even though he's a cry baby
Reply:Let's see... choose the one you love. You love them both equally? Huh? Is that possible? Well, don't be in a hurry, take your time knowing them better. Who knows, one of them might just decide to find someone else, then your problem is solved.
Reply:Doctors have the reputation of always speaking the truth.
while lawyer are.........
most lawyers are boring person,
and doctors get paid even their patients die. heheheh
go for the doctor
Reply:which one can truely make you happy? thats the one you want to be with
Reply:You should go for the one you can see yourself with in the future. I would say go for the doctor. You said the lawyer does not like to show his emotions which is something that messes up a lot of relationships. At least if something goes wrong with the doctor you will know. Also, I personally prefer guys who aren't afraid to show their emotions.
And like others said.. lawyers have to be good at lying and stuff.. so definately go for the doctor.
Reply:Definitely the doctor, just because he is sensitive to your needs (reminding you to stay healthy, cries with you when you're hurt) and probably will be a bit more of a good provider than the lawyer. Just my two cents. :)
Reply:it's not the question of whose the talker or not or whose more sensitive or not...it's the question of who does your heart choose...obviously none of the two right now...best would be not just to focus to them...maybe you're looking for something you've not found in them...you're just amazed of their profession..remember it's that the comfortability but its the compatibility and happiness that you need for long lasting relationship...in the end only you knows the answer to that..
Reply:for me the lawyer
Reply:go for the doctor!! lawyers are great but i go for the doctor..
Reply:if i were you ..i'd choose the lawyer..i like his strong personality..compared to the doctor..honestly..i dont like the man whom easily shows his emotion in front of others..its like ..ahh..its hard to xplain ..
moreover ,.i think the strong personality that the lawyer's hav shown that he is quite a responsible gentleman..thats all for today..thanks for asking ..you can keep the change .,.i mean the 2 points ..you can keep it..i'm serious
Which one do you prefer to be a boyfriend? (Pls read my story...) A doctor or a lawyer?
I'd go for the doctor. If we are to live here in the States, I certainly don't want to be married to a lawyer. They sure have a less than sterling reputation here.
Reply:I recommend neither for you because you don't love either them. If you did love one, then you wouldn't be asking this question. You don't love both because a Filipina's heart is only for one at a time. Wait to you meet someone that makes your heart sing. You'll be doing the doctor and lawyer a favor anyways if you don't love them.
Reply:go for the doctor. if you choose the lawyer, i am pretty certain you will fight for the speakership of the house once you are a couple.
Reply:WOW, you must be sumkinda girl having two great guys swoon after you...hehehe... upon reading your story, i guess i'd choose the lawyer. as women we need someone who is strong and can stand for us or your family in the future. regarding his attitude about keeping it to himself even if he's hurt, you can still change that, be honest with him and tell him that you'd rather have him tell you what he wants and he doesn't want in a relationship and you also do the same- this worked for me ang my husband we've been together for 10 years now.I find the doctor's personality a bit boring.. although he has some good sides as well. The lawyer guy seems exciting. you know us girls, we are always after surprises a little naughtiness will spice up the relationship. But try to envision yourself married to each of them, who do you think would be a perfect partner for yourself. Goodluck! Haba ng hair mo gurl!
Reply:none of them. try to make friends any others, then see what happen. compared thing sometimes give worst answer.
Reply:both are of noble profession, but one or both could have only shown their best foot forward. Have you tried checking it out with compatibility thru astrological signs. The wealthy chinese always use this. Knowing this art and science could even surprise you bc you may discover traits you yourself don't know about yourself.
Reply:if i were you, i'd choose a lawyer...
lawyers are good conversationalists, sentimental and very loving. They are also thoughtful but they tend to be very jealous at times. they are also possessive but whatever, lawyers are good... they won't leave you...
doctors tend to prioritize work first than you while with a lawyer, you always comes first.
whatever i say, just follow your heart...
God bless!
Reply:doctor!
Reply:have you ever win an argument with a lawyer? you would want someone who's sensitive to your feelings and other people's feelings. hmmmpp. lawyers can be wrapped up with their own world that they're always right. hmmmpp. haven't you felt like your dumb sitting and talking to a lawyer while he corrects whatever you say? hmmmpp. they're self righteous. doctors sees beyond and feel what other people can't. hmmmppp. now, you pick. hhmmmppp.
Reply:i would say the doctor...
though they're both useful in different ways, i like the doctor since he's conscious about the health %26amp; lawyers are more on the devil's advocate...they know how to lie...my father is lawyer %26amp; im not saying that he's a liar but he's good at it (the reasoning out), but he's too serious...
Reply:lawyers make the philippines sick
illness doctors can never heal.....
Reply:The doctor, lawyers talk too much.
Reply:Go for a doctor, if you feel him, as he can give life to you... while a lawyer can take your breath from you. Hahaha!
Reply:a doctor..
Reply:well if i was a girl , I'd go for the more good looking one and thats more richer
Reply:lawyer=he can give whatever reason just to make sure that u trust him... sometimes, not that honest..
doctor=very honest man but too busy.
so, its up to you to choose...
Reply:Asked the lawyer about the logical explanation of 2-(-2)=4,
(-2)-2=-4. If he cannot explains it then his full of shi*t and choose the doctor. A doctor saves lives and a lawyer hang people upside down and drained them until they die.
Reply:the doctor is best for you...
Reply:lawyers are pimps... go for the doctor even though he's a cry baby
Reply:Let's see... choose the one you love. You love them both equally? Huh? Is that possible? Well, don't be in a hurry, take your time knowing them better. Who knows, one of them might just decide to find someone else, then your problem is solved.
Reply:Doctors have the reputation of always speaking the truth.
while lawyer are.........
most lawyers are boring person,
and doctors get paid even their patients die. heheheh
go for the doctor
Reply:which one can truely make you happy? thats the one you want to be with
Reply:You should go for the one you can see yourself with in the future. I would say go for the doctor. You said the lawyer does not like to show his emotions which is something that messes up a lot of relationships. At least if something goes wrong with the doctor you will know. Also, I personally prefer guys who aren't afraid to show their emotions.
And like others said.. lawyers have to be good at lying and stuff.. so definately go for the doctor.
Reply:Definitely the doctor, just because he is sensitive to your needs (reminding you to stay healthy, cries with you when you're hurt) and probably will be a bit more of a good provider than the lawyer. Just my two cents. :)
Reply:it's not the question of whose the talker or not or whose more sensitive or not...it's the question of who does your heart choose...obviously none of the two right now...best would be not just to focus to them...maybe you're looking for something you've not found in them...you're just amazed of their profession..remember it's that the comfortability but its the compatibility and happiness that you need for long lasting relationship...in the end only you knows the answer to that..
Reply:for me the lawyer
Reply:go for the doctor!! lawyers are great but i go for the doctor..
Reply:if i were you ..i'd choose the lawyer..i like his strong personality..compared to the doctor..honestly..i dont like the man whom easily shows his emotion in front of others..its like ..ahh..its hard to xplain ..
moreover ,.i think the strong personality that the lawyer's hav shown that he is quite a responsible gentleman..thats all for today..thanks for asking ..you can keep the change .,.i mean the 2 points ..you can keep it..i'm serious
Which one do you prefer to be a boyfriend? (Pls read my story...) A doctor or a lawyer?
I don't mean to ask this just to weigh them both. Honestly, both of them are nice people. The only thing that makes me feel awkward towards them is when they talk about their "profession". I always thank them for always looking for my welfare. The doctor guy always tells me to eat healthy foods (stuffs like that). And, the lawyer guy always talks logically (i mean, it's like everything has logical explanations). Sometimes, it left me a good laugh just talking to them. Haha! It's like I've got 2 instant life tutors! haha! But seriously, if you're in my shoes, who will it be? (i'm in dilemma, not because i can't choose, but because they're both nice and all-- practically almost perfect-- but when it comes to profession thing, i don't know.) They're really like 2 different people: The Doctor, can be very emotional, he cries if he's hurt (w/c for me nothing's wrong with it) while the Lawyer, even if it means for him to get hurt,he won't let it show,he's so strong about his emotions.
Which one do you prefer to be a boyfriend? (Pls read my story...) A doctor or a lawyer?
i'll go with the doctor...crying is not a sign of weakness but a sign of him being "humane"...i like guys who care for me even in the most simplest way :D
Reply:i would choose the lawyer, i think that a guy who's strong provides a lot of confort and support and makes a great company.
Reply:well...
try dating both of them first...
you will know which is better...
there will be time..you think of the other...while dating another..
iguess you still have to make the final choice yourself.
Which one do you prefer to be a boyfriend? (Pls read my story...) A doctor or a lawyer?
i'll go with the doctor...crying is not a sign of weakness but a sign of him being "humane"...i like guys who care for me even in the most simplest way :D
Reply:i would choose the lawyer, i think that a guy who's strong provides a lot of confort and support and makes a great company.
Reply:well...
try dating both of them first...
you will know which is better...
there will be time..you think of the other...while dating another..
iguess you still have to make the final choice yourself.
I've been trying to help out my 16 year niece. She's homeless.?
I took in my 16 year old niece to live with me. Her mom, my sister, put a restraining order against her that doesn't expire until she's 18 as a result of a fight they got in. Since I didn't want her to become a ward of the state of NY I told her she could live with me when I moved to GA. I signed up for food stamps b/c I brought home very little money. In the end, I had to move back to NY to get work and leave her w/my sister in GA until I could enroll her in Job Corps. I crashed my car, so I got rides to work. I then found out that my niece had been skipping school and was flunking. She was also skipping her tutoring sessions. My electricity got cut off and the same day I was fired from my job. Now that I'm in NY I have a job but am staying w/friends. Should I get a weekly room to rent for the both of us to live in while I enroll her in Job Corp and bring her up here? My sister wants her out of her house in GA. Her mother still won't take her in. Get a room? Let her go?
I've been trying to help out my 16 year niece. She's homeless.?
This sounds fishy.. Can a parent really get a restraining order against a minor child? Did you know that if she was a ward of the state you could apply for temporary guardianship and the state would give you money to cover costs? I can appreciate that you want to help, but you're barely able to look after yourself. Tell your sister (the girl's mother) to suck it up and start acting like a proper parent. She brought this girl into the world, she has a responsibility to work throught the issues with her daughter. (Like the rest of us did.)
Reply:TeTe you have done your best, your life situation isn't the same as when you started and she hasn't lightened any of your load. Sometimes, many times, hell often, we do have to say enough is enough. But then I can't tell you when you have had enough, only you can do that. I say Job Corp, all the way. She has to learn that every time she shows her little azz, there isn't always going to be someone there to cover it. You can let her go and you can let her go, but Job Corp would teach her something and hopefully give her that other chance. She is 16, the City and surrounding areas can be harsh, but then I am sure you have gone through all of that. Put her in prayer and send it to God, I had to do it with my daughter, you do have to let go. You took her when her Mom didn't want her and she shows no gratitude, not that you were looking for any, but damn. Sorry, it urks me when young ladies and men take given chances and blow them. I will keep you and her in prayer and that is where you should put it. God Bless.
Reply:get a room wow iam sorry about your case , she sound she been thru alot that why she acting up , she need to know that some love her , and care about she might get preg. really soon that what happen to me . best of luck
Reply:If she wants to have a better life, then she should be making an effort. Skipping school, doesn't make it seem like she's trying to hard. Explain to her you can not keep picking up the pieces when she screws up. Tell her, and say it firmly, that if she lives with you, she will be attending some type of school. She'll get a job so she can help you out with the rent. It sounds like she may need a little tough love. I don't think her mother did the right thing by just putting her out. I don't think she wanted to deal with her. Best of luck to the both of you.
Reply:I agree with may08. Sit her down and tell her that since she is old enough, she should get a part time job to help support. Tell her that you aren't making enough money to ssupport the both of you.
Reply:i think that you should get a room, a close friend of mine got kicked out by him mum because his step dad and him had a fight and then he want to live with his auntie and then his auntiekicked him out cos shes having a baby soon and wont have time for my friend who is 17, i have never seen him so unhappy and he is depressed and i'm worried he'll commit suicide, i am very worried about him and when i read your question it reminded me of him, so please let your niece stay with you, i know that everyone has there faults and noone is perfect but please let her stay becuse noone in the world deserves what my friend has been through and i wouldnt want anyone to
Reply:my friends dead cause he took in ms trouble she cut him in half with a shotgun.
if she doesnt want the help let her go. they have institutions for that
Reply:No, what you need to do is run out and buy a great big can of whoopup, and beat her hind end. You felt sorry for her not really knowing the entire situation at home. You thought she'd treat you with respect. Instead of enrolling her in job corps, send her to a military boot camp where they WILL NOT HESITATE to open up that can.
Reply:Your niece needs to be sat down and explained to that if she wants to have a roof over her head that she will obey the house rules. If not she will be turned into child protective services. You're doing her a huge favor by letting her stay with you.
Reply:send her to me
I've been trying to help out my 16 year niece. She's homeless.?
This sounds fishy.. Can a parent really get a restraining order against a minor child? Did you know that if she was a ward of the state you could apply for temporary guardianship and the state would give you money to cover costs? I can appreciate that you want to help, but you're barely able to look after yourself. Tell your sister (the girl's mother) to suck it up and start acting like a proper parent. She brought this girl into the world, she has a responsibility to work throught the issues with her daughter. (Like the rest of us did.)
Reply:TeTe you have done your best, your life situation isn't the same as when you started and she hasn't lightened any of your load. Sometimes, many times, hell often, we do have to say enough is enough. But then I can't tell you when you have had enough, only you can do that. I say Job Corp, all the way. She has to learn that every time she shows her little azz, there isn't always going to be someone there to cover it. You can let her go and you can let her go, but Job Corp would teach her something and hopefully give her that other chance. She is 16, the City and surrounding areas can be harsh, but then I am sure you have gone through all of that. Put her in prayer and send it to God, I had to do it with my daughter, you do have to let go. You took her when her Mom didn't want her and she shows no gratitude, not that you were looking for any, but damn. Sorry, it urks me when young ladies and men take given chances and blow them. I will keep you and her in prayer and that is where you should put it. God Bless.
Reply:get a room wow iam sorry about your case , she sound she been thru alot that why she acting up , she need to know that some love her , and care about she might get preg. really soon that what happen to me . best of luck
Reply:If she wants to have a better life, then she should be making an effort. Skipping school, doesn't make it seem like she's trying to hard. Explain to her you can not keep picking up the pieces when she screws up. Tell her, and say it firmly, that if she lives with you, she will be attending some type of school. She'll get a job so she can help you out with the rent. It sounds like she may need a little tough love. I don't think her mother did the right thing by just putting her out. I don't think she wanted to deal with her. Best of luck to the both of you.
Reply:I agree with may08. Sit her down and tell her that since she is old enough, she should get a part time job to help support. Tell her that you aren't making enough money to ssupport the both of you.
Reply:i think that you should get a room, a close friend of mine got kicked out by him mum because his step dad and him had a fight and then he want to live with his auntie and then his auntiekicked him out cos shes having a baby soon and wont have time for my friend who is 17, i have never seen him so unhappy and he is depressed and i'm worried he'll commit suicide, i am very worried about him and when i read your question it reminded me of him, so please let your niece stay with you, i know that everyone has there faults and noone is perfect but please let her stay becuse noone in the world deserves what my friend has been through and i wouldnt want anyone to
Reply:my friends dead cause he took in ms trouble she cut him in half with a shotgun.
if she doesnt want the help let her go. they have institutions for that
Reply:No, what you need to do is run out and buy a great big can of whoopup, and beat her hind end. You felt sorry for her not really knowing the entire situation at home. You thought she'd treat you with respect. Instead of enrolling her in job corps, send her to a military boot camp where they WILL NOT HESITATE to open up that can.
Reply:Your niece needs to be sat down and explained to that if she wants to have a roof over her head that she will obey the house rules. If not she will be turned into child protective services. You're doing her a huge favor by letting her stay with you.
Reply:send her to me
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